Withholding Judgment

“Do not judge, and you will never be mistaken.” — Jean-Jacques Rousseau

Resist the urge to rush to judgment. Avoid falling into this trap, for it often leads to grief and can make you appear foolish. Consider the parable of the farmer and his horse—no matter the version, the lesson remains constant: we cannot know if an event is truly good or bad at the moment because the story is still unfolding. What seems like misfortune may later prove to be a blessing, and what appears beneficial could lead to hardship.

Perhaps an event is good; perhaps it is bad. The truth is, you cannot know for certain. All you have is the present moment. Live in that space without rushing to conclusions. By withholding judgment, you free yourself from unnecessary emotional weight and remain open to the unfolding story. Remember, whether an experience lifts you up or pulls you down, it simply is what it is. Embrace it, and allow life to reveal its meaning in time.